[Sexual Healing] Sex Glossary

Pegging: verb, present participle;

a reversal of the typical format of anal sex for heterosexual couples, when a woman wearing a strap-on anally penetrates a man. Most men can dish it, but few men can take it.

 

Frottage: noun;

non-penetrative sex had with clothing on. Done in private or public, like at the club, and often referred to as dry humping or grinding. And that’s why the nuns used to tell you to leave six inches for Jesus at the church dance.

 

Voyeurism: noun;

the practice of getting sexual pleasure from watching others perform sexual acts, usually in secret or from an unknown vantage point. A voyeur is an exhibitionist’s dream.

 

Exhibitionism: noun;

the practice of getting sexual pleasure from performing sexual acts for others’ viewing pleasure. An exhibitionist is a voyeur’s dream.

 

Daddy kink: noun;

a form of ageplay wherein a man acts as a parental figure and may scold, punish, or educate the other partner about sex. Not to be confused with Father kink, which is about priests.

 

Dominance/submission: noun;

roles of authority and subordination taken on by partners. D/s, as it is commonly known, can range from something as simple as one partner being more decisive or in charge during sex to one partner being completely obedient to the other.

 

BDSM: noun; acronym for Bondage/Discipline/Sado[M]asochism.

Bondage involves tying one’s partner up, discipline the deriving of punishments for a ‘disobedient’ partner, and sadomasochism the giving and taking of pain in order to feel pleasure. Having two sadists or two masochists in bed together is one of the worst match ups possible.

 

Sploshing: verb, present participle;

taking pleasure from placing food on another person and usually eating it off of them. The partner whom is being covered in food may take pleasure from the sensation as well. It is one of the most difficult acts to clean up after.

 

Yiffing: verb, present participle;

refers to cybersex or sexual contact between members of the furry fandom, people with interest in anthropomorphic creatures. Originally came from the sound foxes make when mating. That’s right, foxes. Swinging: verb, present participle; trading partners with other couples for sex. Different from polyamory in that emotions are not usually involved. May take place at parties. Often becomes the gateway drug to orgies.